Dear reader,
Do you still remember the hushed whispers about the Aramis social skills week show creeping through the hallways at the Vlerick campuses? Well, lets not keep you in suspense any longer. Here is the tale of MGM Aramis Social Skills Week.
October 10th, Belgium, Leuven, Naamsestraat in front STUK, Earlier than I want to remember:
Me: “You’re going to need a bigger car”.
Film enthusiasts amongst you will recognise this slightly modified sentence from the movie Jaws. Although the sentence has changed somewhat, the fear on my face and that of Roy Schneider, when he took a good look at that shark, were quite similar. Not to worry dear reader, as far as I know no sharks have been spotted in that part of Leuven. However, my monster was much more frightening: an enormous amount of bags of crisps!
It appeared that the ‘snacks and beverages committee’ -with this blogger as an active member- had made a “slight” overestimation on the amount of crisps an average Aramister and Aramises can consume in five days time. Strangely enough this wasn’t the case for the spirited beverages… Fortunately we had some engineers to come up with models on how to fit everything into Olivier’s van.
Well dear reader, we have been standing in the cold long enough. Let us hop on the bus to Merelbeke!
After a sleepy bus ride we arrived at our destination: domain Ten Berg. A little castle with surrounding park and sports facilities, where many heroic football games would be held and where the foundations were laid for the ladies volleyball team. Once everyone put away their luggage, the bags of crisps had been spread all over the kitchen, and I was busy loosing my first sock, we could get started.
We were welcomed by our coaches (Prof. Dr. F. Wang, K. Bellens, I. De Clippeleer, J. Verbrigghe and W. Vroonen) and went outside for some warming up exercises. Not only where these exercises a lot of fun and perfect icebreakers for people who hadn’t had the opportunity to get to know each other better, but they were also an excellent way to loose your voice almost immediately after we had arrived.
Lunch came and went, already several matches of samba volleyball had been played and my sock was officially missing, when it was time for our first rope exercise. Some teams did a great job, others ended up in the bushes, but we all agreed that the debriefing with the feedback and guidance of the coaches gave us very useful and interesting insights into group dynamics, brainstorming and on how to cooperate effectively and efficiently.

After dinner, we had a movie on how to successfully give a presentation, and then dear readers, it was time for our first soiree/party of the week. It was a memorable evening with good music, good people, and a smoke machine that set off the fire alarm: good times!
Day 2:
Perhaps some of us had a bit too much fun the previous evening, but after a quick breakfast and Professor Wang’s music tunes before class, we were all set for another day of social skills training. The morning was full of role playing and matches of samba volleyball. In the afternoon we learned about our interaction styles, and played the ‘survival in the desert’ game. Some groups managed to survive, others were toast (literally).
That evening we had the privilege to receive professor/DJ Frank Wang as our resident deejay for the first part of the evening. The smoke machine was carefully stored away, but we compensated with several rounds of limbo dancing.
Day 3:
Another early morning and quick breakfast on day 3. Some people’s communicational capabilities were reduced to whispering or just plain nodding, but nonetheless we had to make an effort to produce a minimal amount of sound, preferably even words, because in the morning we had our presentations coming up: another very useful session with much appreciated feedback from classmates and coaches.
That day I lost a second sock, but I had more important things on my mind. Yes, dear reader, even the loss of a sock had to make way for the second rope exercise. My team was determined to do a better job than last time (we had some problems with bushes standing in our way), and we had not only our honour to defend, but also that of our coach Inge. She said to us that the groups which performed less the first time, did a better job the second time round, and we proved her right with a beautiful second place.
That evening the entire class came together in the meeting room to listen to classmates that had volunteered for a function in the praesidium. We heard several good speeches, and after former praeses of Theology Bruno interrogated all praeses and vice-praeses candidates, the snacks and beverages committee had the pleasure to announce a special promotion for that night: tequila boom boom! Dear reader, I will not go into any details, but it was a night to remember!

Day 4:
Deprivation of sleep was becoming more and more common, but we had no time to rest. Day 4 was our last day and thus the day we would perform our show for staff, family and friends. So after the morning sessions on constructive feedback, we got started with the final preparations for the show. Dances were rehearsed, guitars were tuned, and the IT and organisational department did an amazing job of installing all equipment, and making sure the show would run smoothly.
Finally, the moment had arrived dear reader, the crowd had taken their seat, the lights went out: showtime!
I had the pleasure to watch a truly hilarious show filled with movies and live acts. As the rest of my classmates and spectators, I was blown away by Katrien and Sebastien’s brilliant 4 chord song, the man bites dog video, the fantastic “May I kiss you” movie with program manager Laura as the star, and many more videos and acts. I really enjoyed dancing and singing with my fellow men in ties and playing the bass for the U2 cover One with our own Aretha Franklin: Katrien, Russian guitar heroes: Ilia and David, acoustic guitar wizard: Kevin, and last but not least the exceptional violinist: Sofie.

I can highly recommend you, dear reader, to have a look at the DVD that will be released soon. We not only received praise from our coaches, family and friends, but also our custom sweaters that program director prof. Boute brought with him.
I don’t think I will forget that day. Everyone walking around in their sweaters, happy as can be with a smooth and great show. Of course this called for another party! Laurent made one last effort to fire up the smoke machine, but hey you can’t have everything, right?
October 21st, Belgium, Leuven, in front of STUK, around noon:
Dad: “How was it”? Me: “great”. Dad: “What did you do”? Me: “A lot”. Dad: “You look tired”. Me: “Yeah”.
This, dear reader, is the traditional conversation my father and I have after I come home from a holiday or school trip. I was exhausted, and had the blues. Don’t you worry, dear reader, it was a good kind of blues. The kind of blues you get when you come back from a wonderful week, with an amazing atmosphere and great people. A week where we really but our credo “Work hard! Play hard!” into practice.
I hereby want to thank our coaches (Prof. Dr. F. Wang, K. Bellens, I. De Clippeleer, J. Verbrigghe and W. Vroonen) for the great sessions and fun atmosphere, program manager Laura for taking care of all practicalities, program director prof. Boute for bringing our sweaters and everyone that came to our show. However, most of all I want to thank my classmates for giving me a social skills week to truly remember!
Q.S.
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